Tuesday, January 6, 2009

I'd rather be a boy!

"If I were a Boy
I think I could Understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man..

I'd listen to her
Cos I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cos he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed.

If I were a Boy
I think I could Understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man!"

If only I was granted one wish, I would be a boy for a day and see how it feels to do as you wish, and not be accountable to numerous amount of mistakes made. I want to be in those shoes that walk out of the door untouched and unaffected by accusations and reasoning. By the grace of Almighty, men have been blessed with a mind over a soul. I want to posses that mind that listens to no one but himself, I want to be rude, unpredictable and forgetful.

But then again, I think, why should I be a boy who is one among the many other insensitive creeps running around the place! I'd rather be a boy who listens, I'd rather be a boy who calls first after a fight, who forgives faster than he forgets, I'd rather be a boy who understands the true meaning of commitment and promise. I'd rather be a boy who treats women as equal decision makers and not someone they can fall back on when they fail. I wanna be a boy who doesn't live on whims and can learn to leave his selfish interests behind. I want to be a Boy who is capable of what we women call Compromise!


  1. which is why we'll be better boys... :) cos we know how it feels to be treated like shit!

    or, maybe we can be like those girls who treat all men like shit..the way J Lo did :D

  2. Who is responsible for the choices being made?? The same question I asked to someone else as well.The dependency should be avoided, I guess. [no hard feelings, nothing person as well :)]

  3. @Queen Bean: thanks! Im sure you'll be a better boy!! :D Also, the purpose was not to become a become a boy who treats women like shit! the purpose was to become the Mission Impossible Male..!! who is nice to women.. for a change :D

    @ Tarun: I guess, easier said than done, dependency is a part of life and a semi part of expectations. If you are in love you expect, if you expect, then you are bound to depend!! (phew!!)

  4. True!!!.....if i were a boy, i am sure i would have been even beter than we girls can imagine...i would actually listen even when she complained rather than let a monkey do a trapeze show in my hollow mind!

  5. @ your comment....exactly, but men wont understand this...bcos these species are so self concerned that they dont even know the meaning of dependency...their thick heads can never understand how a girls happiness is directly proporttion to their man's behavior cos they simply dont care!

  6. You are talking about relative life while what i think and possess is absolute LIFE, because if it is relative than it is not true and false things succumb easily.
    Njoy, life is beautiful

  7. Well I think you want to be 'me' for one day at least. Look 'inside' yourself. You will feel it.
    @tarun - rightly said bro; choices made were yours. as a matter of fact results that follow are yours as well.
    @sonia - men and women together are one species. complimentary forces in nature. there is nothing that exists like a lone pair in this universe. nd my behavior is equally affected by a woman. its not one way sonia. it is that way only.