This is the Bermuda triangle of all relationships that are based on love, and only love. Love-less relationships are easier to get out of, no worries- and no thoughts on the back-burner. It's the love that causes this insane amount of problem.
When you are in the Bermuda triangle, you will realize that your day to day life will constantly become a haze of blurred mood-swings, with uncontrollable bursts of sudden revelations - that will come with a promise to put back the steering wheel into your hands. But very soon, you will realize that its all a hoax. Not only are you back inside the triangle, you are in too deep. This is the place where all your ideals and values and principles, will disappear. They will disappear and you will have no reason left for your actions.
At this phase you will have no control on your emotions, your actions, and will be the most difficult person to handle. You might even feel like slapping yourself for being the most weakest creature that God has created. But, no matter how hard you fight to get out of this, you won't be able to. You can either be in love and not be happy at the same time, or be happy and never find love.
None of the choices seem to be much alluring, but that's what this is all about. This is what it all comes down to....